John Tumino

No One Should Feel Invisible: Reaching Out to Our Friends in Need

Winter has a way of showing its harshest side when temperatures drop to the single digits. The air bites, the wind stings, and the world becomes a colder, quieter place. For many of us, the warmth of home provides refuge. But for our friends living under bridges, in abandoned spaces, or wherever they can find shelter, this kind of weather can be life-threatening.

It’s in these moments that stepping outside of our comfort zones to check on them becomes a matter of life and death. Recently, I found myself doing just that—climbing hills, hopping fences, and going the extra mile to ensure the safety of our friends experiencing homelessness. Every step was worth it because, in the end, no one should feel invisible.

The Reality of Living Unsheltered in Winter
Imagine for a moment what it’s like to face a night outside when temperatures hover around zero. There’s no door to close to keep out the cold, no heater to warm your hands, and no guarantee that your layers of clothing will be enough. Frostbite and hypothermia are real dangers, and the physical toll of exposure is compounded by the emotional weight of isolation.

For many living unsheltered, the cold isn’t just a discomfort; it’s a constant threat. When temperatures plummet, they face difficult decisions—where to sleep, how to stay warm, and whether to trust strangers offering help. It’s a battle for survival that most of us can’t fully comprehend.

Going Beyond the Comfort Zone
This week, as the temperatures plunged into the single digits, IMFK knew WE couldn’t stay inside and wonder if the people we have come to know and care about were okay. We had to act.

The journey wasn’t easy. It involved navigating icy hills and climbing fences, searching for those who might be taking refuge in places most of us wouldn’t think to look. Under bridges, tucked away in hidden corners, or huddled behind structures where the wind is slightly less brutal—these are the spaces where our friends often find themselves.

Each step brought new challenges, but every effort was worth it. Why? Because every person matters. No one deserves to feel unseen, unheard, or forgotten.

Acts of Kindness That Transform Lives
Kindness is a powerful force, especially when directed toward those who often feel invisible. It can take many forms—a warm blanket, a hot meal, a pair of gloves, or simply the reassurance that someone cares enough to check on them.

During our visit, we were not just looking for people to help; we were building connections. A kind word, a listening ear, or even a small gesture can mean the world to someone who feels overlooked. Kindness reminds people of their humanity and shows them that they’re not alone in their struggles.

One of the most impactful moments of my journey was meeting someone who had been hesitant to accept help before. This time, when we showed up, they smiled and said, “I didn’t think anyone would come out here to check on us.” That single sentence reinforced the importance of showing up, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.

How You Can Make a Difference
Not everyone can climb fences or trek through icy conditions, but everyone can contribute to the well-being of our friends experiencing homelessness. Here are some simple yet powerful ways to help:

Donate Winter Essentials: Items like blankets, coats, gloves, hats, and socks are lifesavers during extreme weather. Consider donating to IMFK, every Friday from 12-2 at our facility at 501 Hawley Ave.

Support OUR Outreach Programs: We at IMFK provide direct assistance to those living on the streets. Your financial support can amplify OUR efforts.

Practice Everyday Kindness: A smile, a warm greeting, or a simple conversation can brighten someone’s day and remind them that they matter.

Be Aware and Take Action: If you see someone in distress during extreme weather, don’t hesitate to call 211 a local services that can provide assistance. In Syracuse, there are hotlines or emergency shelters designed to help people in crisis.

The Importance of Seeing and Valuing Others
At its core, this work is about more than providing physical assistance—it’s about seeing people for who they are and valuing their inherent worth. Too often, those experiencing homelessness are ignored, judged, or treated as if they don’t exist. But everyone has a story, and everyone deserves compassion.

By reaching out, we not only meet immediate needs but also help restore dignity and hope. We remind people that they are more than their circumstances, that they have value, and that someone cares.

A Personal Commitment to Change
As I reflect on our experience, I’m reminded that making a difference doesn’t require grand gestures. It starts with a simple decision to care. Whether it’s braving the cold to check on a friend, donating a warm coat, or simply acknowledging someone with a smile, every act of kindness adds up.

The world can feel like a cold place—literally and figuratively—but when we choose to step up and support one another, we create warmth in the hearts of those who need it most. And in doing so, we remind ourselves of what it means to be truly human.

So, the next time you see someone in need, remember this: No one should feel invisible. Every effort, no matter how small, can make a profound difference. Together, we can create a world where kindness is the rule, not the exception. And in that world, everyone has a chance to thrive—even on the coldest of days.

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Street outreach and medical services – a perfect match. As we connect with our city’s most vulnerable, we’re heartened by familiar faces and saddened by new ones. The meals we serve spark trust, leading to stories of struggle, often fueled by substance abuse and its devastating consequences.

A harsh reality, but one that highlights the lifesaving work of our partners at Housecalls for the Homeless-Upstate. Dr. Lehmann and his medical students are a beacon of hope, providing critical care on the streets.

And you, our Sous Chefs, are the third essential prong in our mission. Your generosity fuels our outreach, bringing solace to those suffering in CNY. Thank you for your compassion and support – we’re eternally grateful!”

It’s always a pleasure to appear on the local show with Steve and Tom. Thank you for having me and providing a platform to share our mission and bring awareness to the community. We appreciate your support in opening doors and airways to important conversations, and fostering understanding and connection.

Good morning John,

I wanted to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude for your outstanding contribution to our Community Service class day last month at the CNY Community Foundation. As always, your expertise and leadership were exceptional, captivating the class and greatly enriching the entire experience. Several class members shared positive feedback on the insights they gained. Here’s what some of them had to say:

‘Listening to John Tumino was truly inspiring, and it made me really think about the way I react to seeing panhandlers on the side of the road. Every person is a “human and deserves to be treated with respect and not ignored.”

“I would consider John Tumino to be one of the best speakers we’ve heard this year. His personal experiences are inspirational.”

“John Tumino was fantastic! It was amazing to learn about what he does in the community. It has inspired me to help.”

 “Hearing from John Tumino left me with a different perspective and inspired me to use my own unique gifting and talents to further help support the community.”

John, your generosity in volunteering your time and support for LGS is genuinely appreciated. Your efforts have significantly enriched our program, and we are truly grateful for your dedication to our community.

Thank you again for your invaluable participation and commitment to LGS and our mission. I look forward to future opportunities to collaborate and further enrich our learning journey.

Wishing you a wonderful rest of the summer!

Robin Macaluso 

Program Director LGS